Who am I

50 years old, 1.85m, Engineer, divorced, born in SP capital, born March 31, Aries with rising Aries.

 

Preference

Shibarista, Dominator, Sadist, Straight.

 

My nick

YoY = Ying O Yang (O = initial of my name).

MASTER = was not put up for self-assertion, it was used by Barbara Reine, when I was going to introduce myself to other practitioners, because of shibari workshops, since then it has been.

 

When BDSM came into my life
Like most people early on, I realized that scenes of SM, torture, and equivalents stirred me, arousing some excitement.
I consider the movie "The Pendulum and Well" to be the first scenes in which really at the age of 12 stirred my imagination and made me startled by the fact that I reacted pleasantly to the scene of the woman trapped below the pendulum.
Ignoring this, I continued my life normally having that much more aggressive and spontaneous sexual side, pissing off some partners, falling in love with others.
At 29 I felt that I needed to learn to better control my impulses and from there I decided to learn the “SSC - São Consensual Insurance” and since then I live to learn.

 

First contact

In early 2000, I decided to visit Valhala, the first house dedicated to the BDSM community in South America, because I already knew some people from ZaZ, yahoo and Zillerthal, as many must have gone through this too, I arrived in front of the house and had no initiative to enter, returning after a few weeks, now more determined, I entered and was received by the esteemed BARBARA REINE, and soon I was able to make a friendship bond that I cherish until today, my mentor, impressive woman, whom I always respected and always I will respect, dear Bela, Klaus and many other people I also met at that time, who formed a few years before the "WE ARE" that I know the first group in Brazil to make public and defend the lifestyle BDSM, and other people that I preserve Friendship to this day, which I will not mention so as not to commit the rudeness of not mentioning friends that I greatly appreciate. It was in houses like Valhalla, Zillertal, Bar arts, Dominna and others that in friendship, respect and a lot of laughs, I learned, taught and shared what I know. In mid-2007, I met my slave and then wife, and already tired of the direction that BDSM began to take, with the proliferation of theories of BDSM Doctors who had nothing, put my ropes in my backpack and went to live my life. BDSM itself, like most of the people I lived with, in 10 years my site went down, despite dozens of attempts to buy the domain, now back in midway in 2017 and proving that everyone was right, BDSM reinvented itself, new icons and examples, the politically correct one found his place in BDSM, anyone with a keyboard became a rule dictator.

Living together in communion, the basis of BDSM has given way to study and discussion, there is no school, group, thought, people no longer understand each other and often do not know where they fit or fit.

Unfortunately for boys born in water park time it is impossible to explain the simple pleasure of undressing and swimming in a clean and tranquil river.

Those were times left behind, swallowed by the masters googles, Orkuts, facebooks and wikipedia, driven by the desire of a new generation crazy for perversion.

 

My vision of BDSM

I consider the BDSM instinct to be natural within us and act on our being the same way homosexuality, no one chooses to be gay as well as SM, comes from within, a feeling that flows naturally, and really brings frustration when repressed. Being one of the worst things for those who have SM blood is to have someone who does not like a pat on the partner, which sooner or later bring us dissatisfactions that seem to have no reason.

 

My first contact with Shibari

Like most people, I also knew very little about BDSM practices and my favorite practice was always Bondage, learning a lot from my Little Brother TIRANO, right from the beginning of BARBARA REINE who always had a special affection with all the members of his circle. , asked me if I would like to learn Shibari and then help propagate, at the time our friend Highlander was already doing wonderful moorings and Workshop in Valhalla and thanks to BARBARA I had contact with some material and a Japanese Master that I can not remember the name, but that she had a more personal contact.
From then on, it was the same race, it was dozens and dozens of hours of trial and error looking at those scanned photos, and with ridiculous moorings, I started doing workshops and spreading Shibari.

Thanks to my lyjasmin {YoY} slave who fluently spoke and wrote Japanese kanji, I created the first shibari dictionary, which is still on my site today.
In 2004 I made the first public suspension at the 24/7 meeting organized by Topazio's Dominna Club invited by the wonderful WALKIRIA, at least I don't know if there was another public suspension before, these photos arrived at Mestre Japônes who presented me with my first hemp rope.
It was a very good time, as Shibari was totally unknown, I also registered the domain shibari.com.br that belongs to me to this day.

For those who do not know, BRAZILIAN SHIBARI BEGAN IN THE VALHALA MASMORRA, he was not born here from the internet or masters who studied with Japanese masters, was a difficult and sometimes expensive work because many times we had to afford the meetings of his own pocket without We never charged anything.

 

My conduct

Even as Domineering and with domineering attitudes, these rigid attitudes, I leave only to the subs who knelt out of their own accord to me and I don't keep shouting at everyone, "I'm a Dominator, not even looking bad and everyone has to respect me and kneel down ”rrss,
I treat Bottons and Tops equally, and I do not demand Dominator's treatment of someone who is not my sub, considering this treatment of others to me as a loving and spontaneous act of respect.

 

What is right in BDSM
Respecting others, regardless of their fetishes and attitudes, which may be good for me may be terrible for you, and vice versa, if it's Healthy, Safe, and Consensual between two people, then that's right, even if many consider it wrong, I don't. I loan, not seeing, I do not rent my slave, some dominators lend, rent. etc. , many may even call it prostitution and I call it fetish if that is their purpose and if the end is not really to profit from it.

 

What is wrong with BDSM
I think my opinion and view of BDSM or any other is correct.
learn to have and live yours.
Judge other people, never judge why you're no better than anyone and don't care about judgments because nobody is better than you.
To think that as a Dominator is better than any submissive, and to think that your pleasure is the only thing that matters.
Pain is an intense and profound form of pleasure, so do it with care and dedication by exploring what each has to offer.
Believe that you already know enough about something and think that every partner responds equally to stimuli.

Radical pleasure
To really deny the risks of SM practice, is to be sinic, yes there is the risk, because when there is the physical and mental surrender of the partner, it opens to new sensations and the desire to provide these sensations, needs to be dosed, with awareness and knowledge, never do something you do not know or know, and especially a lot of dialogue between D / s, always be aware, away from alcohol or numbing, after all we want to feel more, do not believe everything they say or see, especially photos, many of them are mounts or makeup.

How do I summarize
I am what I am, I am not a coward, but I am not stupid either, I was not born to repeat others, not even myself. I'm a visionary, but I know where I walk.
I try never to make complicated what is simple ...

 

Being a dominator doesn't stop me from being a gentleman.

 

If the woman is a mystery, the submissive is their universe..

 

 

My Tatoo

BDSM Symbol + The Pendulum of Truth + YoY

 

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My two passions BDSM and MOTORCYCLE

 

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